On Having to Do Something You Don't Like
Will you sometimes compromise your interest or preferences and do something you do not like ? For example , accepting a job you have no interest in or marrying a man / woman you do not like . Different people respond differently when they have to do things they do not like .
Some people follow their inner voices and can never bear to do things they do not like . If they decide to do a job , they do it because that is where their interest lies instead of being influenced by other factors . In comparison , other people are more flexible.They do what is necessary under the current situation . They can accept a job which pays them well to support their families even though they do not like it.
ln my opinion , we should follow our hearts when it comes to critical decisions . such as jobs and marriage , but on trivial matters . it is harmless to be flexible.
不得不做一些你不喜歡的事情
你會不會有時會損害你的興趣或偏好,做一些你不喜歡的事情?例如,接受一份你不感興趣的工作,或者娶一個你不喜歡的男人/女人。不同的人在不得不做自己不喜歡的事情時會有不同的反應。
有些人聽從自己內心的聲音,永遠無法忍受做自己不喜歡的事情。如果他們決定做一件工作,他們做這件事是因爲這是他們的興趣所在,而不是受到其他因素的影響。相比之下,其他人更靈活。他們在當前情況下做必要的事情。他們可以接受一份報酬豐厚的工作來養家餬口,即使他們不喜歡這份工作。
在我看來,當涉及到重大決策時,我們應該用心去做。比如工作和婚姻,但在小事上。靈活是無害的。